Does God Have Favourites?

Why do some people’s lives reflect more of God than others? Why are some Christians living heaven on earth but others just barely struggle to keep their heads above the water?

I was trailing along this line of thought when an analogy popped into my consciousness:

Of my three plain pairs of trousers, which I bought all new, the blue one is my favourite.

Why? While the colours of the first one decided to fade, and the second one’s threading started to pull out, the third remained new and bright. So it became my favourite.

God bought us and washed us all new. Every Christian at salvation has the same status – adopted child – with great potentials. But after that, we decide the level of intimacy we want to maintain with God. And the deciding factor is OBEDIENCE.

“He who has My commandments and keeps then, it is he who loves Me. And he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and manifest Myself to him.”

Jesus answered and said, “If anyone loves me, he will keep My word: and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our home with him.”

-John 14:21 &23

God never changes. He is love and that love in itself is discretely absolute with no varying degrees. But the extent to which we experience God’s love is not dependent on Him (He does not partially bestow special favours on a select few); but it is dependent on us. You and me.

Like black gold ore rescued from the mine, we all were, with the potential to become shining gold. But some have remained ore, while others have begun the process of firing to become sparkling gold. Some have decided to maintain a quality Christian life while others have become counterfeit and diluted in their principles.

Some people are of the opinion that God has favourites.  I think they observed that God draws nearer to the people who initially draw nearer to Him and seek to please Him through faith to make that conclusion. This isn’t favouritism. God is not partial. He has given us His word that “draw near to God and He will draw near to you.” (James 4:8). And He is true to His word.

Have you remained on the fringes of the palace or have you dared to enter the throne-room? Have you decided to steer clear of sin and follow the highway of righteousness or you are still lingering long in in Temptation Avenue? You know what happens to people who do that: they get invited to sin banquet where the devil is the Chairman of the occasion, fun is the appetizer and death  is the main course. You don’t usually live to eat the dessert.

“But on this one will I look: on him who is poor and of a contrite spirit, and who trembles at My word.” Isaiah 66:2

That’s God saying there that you will start to experience heavenly communion and love when you are humble, contrite and reverently responsive to God’s word (what He has to say!).

“… and I will love him and manifest Myself to him.”

Do you know that because my blue trouser remained quality, I started to wash and rinse it separately from others and with greater care.

“Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.” James 4:10

That is what God does to anyone who responds to him call. No one has been predestined to be favoured of God. In fact, we all have equal chances. But we can experience a greater dimension of His love, and we can live a favoured and fulfilled life: if we decide to delight in His presence and grow daily in Him.

Then it’ll just look like we’re God’s favourites. They won’t see the difference!

Author: Toluwanimi

Toluwanimi believes young people can do great things with their lives. “Give them wings; watch them soar,” He always says. He is a physician by training and a budding behavioral scientist with a keen interest in child and adolescent health and development. Having worked with teenagers for over a decade, he loves to study and practice evidenced-based methods of inspiring positive behavioral change. His current project, GrandHeights, aims to provide resources and mentorship connections that inspire and empower young people to realize their life’s full potential despite negative circumstances around them. He plans to develop an establishment that will conduct research, develop effective strategies that will impart hope, empowerment, and refuge for youth and families in at-risk situations. He also believes creativity can be a transformative tool and through his start-up, Missionary Creatives, he helps nonprofits tell their stories and develop strategies to drive growth.

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