Change your Life

change your lifeHello, Happy Tuesday,

Talking about change is easy, but taking control of your life and actually making monumental changes often seems too daunting to try. However, improving your life and yourself doesn’t have to involve earth-shattering transformations; by making simple, incremental changes, you can gradually create a better, more fulfilling life for yourself. These tips are extracted from Nancy Mann Jackson’s ‘Twenty-five habits that will change your life’

Spend time with God daily. Rise earlier each morning, go to bed a little later, or skip a mindless activity you need to let go of. Spend the extra time in Bible reading and prayer. Making quiet time a daily habit will bless your life. [1 Thessalonians 5:17]

Talk about your faith. Faith is a personal thing for most people, but that doesn’t mean it has to be private. If you’re not accustomed to sharing your faith with others or talking openly about Christ, make a commitment to start talking. Look for opportunities to mention your faith in everyday conversation by offering to pray for a friend who’s hurting or giving God credit for His work in your life. If your mentions of faith are genuine, you’ll not only become more assured of God’s role in your life, but you’ll make a positive impact on those around you naturally. [1 Peter 3:15]

Read a book every month (or two). The more you read, the more you learn. If you make reading a habit, not only will you expand your horizons, enjoy yourself, and learn new things, but you’ll also become a more interesting person. [Proverbs 12:1]

Even if you already practice some of these suggestions, keep in mind that those areas still have room for sprucing up. God bless you!

Share: What tips have you adopted that has helped you since 2013 began?

Kill the Mockingbird

Have you seen a mockingbird before?

I haven’t but heard that it’s a special kind of bird, one of those that imitate sounds. Born of the thrasher family of birds, it is commonly found in North America.

Rather than singing their own songs, the mockingbird learns and repeats the songs of other species. And its’ pretty good at that – able to confidently learn up to 200 songs during its lifetime. The males are often more vocal than the females and can sing throughout the day (24hours!) during its breeding season.

Not only can these birds mimic other birds calls, there are a wide range of other sounds – sirens, bells, frogs, crickets, squirrels,  a home alarm, rusty gate, the whirring and squeaks of a washing machine  – within their capacity and these they do with grace and skill!

Nothern mockingbird

Now, here’s the catch: these mockingbirds are gracefully skilful at imitation! But why? Couldn’t they have spent the time discovering and learning their original voice?

And that unanswered question lingered in my mind: a life of mimicry.

I stopped thinking about these cute little birds, but now directed my thought to my own life and the lives of humans in general.

There is a mockingbird in every one of us – that part of you that doesn’t appreciate your originality, and always looking for someone to imitate. And when we’re not so good at it, we shrink into the inferiority complex.

Many young people want to be someone else. We work our heads off and spend so much time learning and skilfully working at being like that movie star, that businessman, that friend, that pastor or what have you – we try to match a picture that is isn’t ours.

Because of insecurity or unwillingness, we fail to discover our authenticity and how God wants you to live, and copy the patterns of the world system

Listen to what God says:

Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you.

Rom 12:2 [MSG]

Let God tell you who you are and how to live – by communing with Him and staying in His Word regularly.

You are born with a unique purpose. Kill the mockingbird in you!

Share: in what ways have you been a mockingbird? What changes could you make?